Wednesday, January 22, 2014

“Don’t You Talk About Me”: Defending Richard Sherman (?)



I’ve spent the past few days reading facebook posts, blogs, watching video, and news article reactions/responses to Richard Sherman’s NFC Championship “rant”.  That night, I spent a few hours considering other’s reactions to his rant (positive and negative) being shared on Facebook.  My initial sentiments? They were all over the place but, for the most part, the following questions kept on surfacing…When did we stop expecting athletes to display good sportsmanship?  When did we start believing that arrogance wins over humility?  When did we start accepting “rants” as thoughtful expressions of emotion?  Why does his Stanford education or GPA preclude him from a momentary lapse in rhetorical oblivion?  How can people acknowledge that what he did was not ok but didn’t have a problem with it?  When did we decide that we cannot hold people accountable for their actions or that it is not ok to make mistakes?  Why should we even care about Richard Sherman?  For these questions, I was sad.  
So like many other people, I posted my initial reaction on my page:
Most importantly, I read Richard Sherman’s response posted on TheMMQB entitled “To Those Who Would Call Me a Thug or Worse …’.
When I watched Richard Sherman do all of this Sunday, it took me to a different place.  At the same time, I’m convinced that the rant should be attributed to more than the mere adrenaline rush that so many people are referencing. After all, when is the last time you told someone or heard someone say “Don’t you talk about me”? To me, there’s so much more complexity and nuance...I’ve been reflecting on all of this and I tried to round them up into seven main thoughts:
1.  Let’s be clear… Sherman’s actions before or after Sunday night’s game will never warrant the character assassination and racist vitriol that has consumed public debate over the past 48 hours.  Richard Sherman can be characterized as many things but a “thug”, “N-Word”, “setting the black race back”, “or Worse” are not simply false but they are flat out racist in every sphere of the social construct.  These statements against Sherman should be vigorously rejected by the masses and people should offer him their support against these hateful attacks. 
2.  Who is Richard Sherman?   Context matters.  History matters. We should care about Richard Sherman because he wants us to care.  This was not just a spur of the moment rant.  This is what Sherman does.  He speaks his mind and often argues for his adversaries to acknowledge the respect that he believes he deserves.  If we take that away from him, by saying this was an adrenaline rushed response, then we take away his right to demand the respect he deserves and those calls for respect that occurred prior to Sunday night.        
3. The notion of “silencing” Richard Sherman:  I would never support efforts to “silence” Richard Sherman.  I do support reminding Sherman that his intellect and talent has helped him to accomplish something few with his background have achieved but his behavior Sunday was not a good representation of his whole self.  He knows this, because he expressed it in his article and the apology that he offered the next day.  We too should know this as well and should not encourage this behavior as acceptable in any sphere of his life.  Sports do not afford a person the right to exhibit behavior that would be otherwise unacceptable in a broader context.  I realize many accept this to be fact, but we have to begin rejecting it or our own children will display these acts in our homes, schools, and communities.  If you would not accept this from your own children or teach your own children this behavior as acceptable, why would it be acceptable for Sherman?   
4.  For my Facebook folks:   I must address my Facebook responders who challenged me on his use of the N-Word.  Do I know with all certainty that he used the complete word, no.  What I know with all certainty is that I heard it when it crossed my ears and my eyes confirmed as I read his lips.  You see, I grew up around people who were hearing impaired.  So at a very young age I learned how to read lips and sign the alphabet so that we could communicate.  But I acknowledged that reading lips is an imperfect tool and conceded that others watching with me did not hear him say the N-word.  So we rewound the interview, 3 times, and they also agreed that he used the word.  Maybe he did not say the N-Word in its entirety, but I know for certain that he began to say it.  If I concede that he caught himself, it still saddens me that his broader call for respect was enveloped in a level of anger that would cause him to use that hateful word.  For this, I believe he owes Crabtree an apology.  Friendly competition and “trash-talking” is absolutely apart of the game, but this level of anger is just as hateful as the people who used it against him. 
 5. About Sherman as a representation for Black people: I am happy to say that I now have the capacity to view the representation of Black people in American culture on a spectrum.  Richard Sherman’s rant and people’s reaction to it does not fall in the same category of our discussions of reality television or made for television dramas.  We must begin to understand all things Black is not a monolithic expression of Black culture.  I no longer get upset about the representation of Black people on reality shows, movies, and television because I understand that these things are “scripted” perspectives of the individual writing up these scenarios.  But football is real life.  The emotion that came from Richard Sherman at that moment was real life and in real time.  So my reaction to it is just different.      
6.  Why I’m not here for the “adrenaline rush” narrative:  What do I expect Sherman to do with his adrenaline rushing at its maximum level because he just made the play that gave the Seattle Seahawks only its 2nd Super Bowl appearance in history?  I expect him to do what he has done many times before, be a good sportsperson.  I expect him to do exactly what he did when he spoke to other reporters immediately following the end of the game.  For the sake of clarity, Erin Andrews did not run up to him immediately after the play.  There was still an extra kick of which a penalty was accessed because of the action that was the real reason for the rant.  This was not your average “end of the game adrenaline rush”.  We have to acknowledge that fact.  We also have to acknowledge that it is ok to expect him to display good sportsmanship and unfortunately he did not exhibit it at this moment.  Thus is was in fact, not ok! 
7.  …but I am here for a more critical and complex narrative:  Given that I try to be a consistent advocate for athletes, my concern for Sherman’s rant has nothing to do with his right or appropriateness during the post-game interview.  I have to understand that his “adrenaline rush” response was greater than a moment but a release from a young man who feels the weight of his background on his shoulders.  His expression to be recognized as “The Best” is a warranted expectation for a young Black man, who resisted deviant behaviors in his neighbor, earned a college degree from Standford University, and made the play that sent his team to the Super Bowl.  And because of these facts, we can also encourage him to remember we believe he deserves all that he has accomplished not because of his arrogance but because of his humility.      

Based on the responses of fans, social media, and popular media, it appears that people want us to judge Richard Sherman by his whole self and not use this singular incident as a moniker for his character.  I agree with anyone who feels this way.  So, I choose not to judge him at all.  I choose to consider Richard Sherman as his whole self which for me is a young man who has had to fight his entire life to earn the respect that every Black man (and every person) feels that he deserves.  These things do not give him a pass to handle his issues with Crabtree (or anyone else he feels disrespects him) in this way.  Why?  Because Black boys and men who make this same choice but are not in the position to taut his accomplishments will not find themselves playing in the Super Bowl.  We can’t have it both ways.  We just can’t!!    
Will this “rant” affect who I will root for in the 2014 Super Bowl game?  Not in the least!  I was a sport fan before I was a sport sociologist!  Don’t ever get THAT twisted.  As a sport fan I have always been attracted to “the story” over the “talent”.  I suspect that explains why I am a sport sociologist.  This will never change, thus the story will guide my 2014 Super Bowl pick just like everyone before and everyone after!  Play hard, Seattle Seahawks and Denver Broncos, play with heart!!